So much has been said about whether or not to remain celibate before marriage. Times have changed, people’s views have changed, and even social standards for relationships have changed. Through it all, some people prefer to hold fast to tradition and keep sex within the marital institution. I think it’s remarkably difficult, but as some have proven, it’s something that can be done.
Ebony Magazine recently caught up with newlywed Tamera Mowry Housley and it looks as though she is quite passionate about ‘no sex before marriage’. She revealed to the publication that she was abstinent before she got married to Fox News Anchor Adam Housley and she does not believe a couple should live together before marriage.
EBONY: Tamera you mentioned in an interview that you and [your husband, Fox News Correspondent] Adam [Housley] not only didn’t live together, you also remained celibate until you married last year. Why did you choose that route and do you have any advice for your fans who are trying to follow in your footsteps in that regard?
TAMERA: Adam and I took a break from dating for about a year. We missed each other and something was drawing us together, but more than that, we wanted to make sure that this relationship was what God wanted for our lives. [In order to know] if we are meant to be together, we said, ‘it’s got to be God’s way and not our way.’ We didn’t want to half-step anything [or have clouded judgment]. So our right way was the way we felt God wanted us to do it which was being celibate. We said to God, ‘This is who we are, I know you take us as we are, our faults, our fears, our joys, our hope as a couple and have your way.’ (more…)
People never learn. Why the hell would you make a sex tape? We’ve covered it before and I thought I had armed you guys with enough info about the dos and the don’ts. Well, it seems someone is shopping around a sex tape of Usher and his ex wife Tameka. TMZ broke the story yesterday. Apparently, the existence of the sex tape is not the only news. According to TMZ, both Usher and Tameka are “givers”. Now what does that mean to you? I take it to mean that Usher was letting Tameka pleasure him with some kind of dildo or something. I’m sorry but that is not something I ever want to see because what has been seen cannot be unseen.
Remember Khia? She’s the lady who sang ‘My Neck, My Back’ what seems like a gazillion years ago. Talk about a one hit wonder. These days I only hear about her when she’s beefing with some random person in a non-intelligent rant which just seems like a jumble of words. This is the first time in a long time I have actually understood her and even agree with what she’s saying! She talked to Vibe.com and gave the ladies tips for the bedroom. (more…)
I was doing something today (can’t tell you what) that reminded me about this interview that Andre did with Playboy. Let’s just say it makes you feel like you know him intimately… No wonder Erykah Badu was so strung out…
What music do you listen to during sex?
I listen to jazz — Coltrane, the Isley Brothers, Anita Baker. We call them “fuck tapes.” A f*ck tape is a compilation tape that you’ve made yourself with all your favorite songs. You usually start it off with a nice little groove, you know, and by the end of the tape it’s just real slow. It’s kind of like the soundtrack to that night.
What’s your favorite sexual act?
Kissing. All over the body.
What’s your favorite part of the female anatomy?
The nipples. I like puffy nipples. Long, hard nipples that look like thumbs sticking out.
What’s the most memorable sexual experience you’ve ever had?
One time I had sex at a baseball field. It wasn’t really the sex; it was the environment. We were just riding around. It was a rainy night, and we went into this scorebox where the announcers sit and call the game. “Bases loaded. And his hand goes here…!”
Have you ever had sex with a groupie or a fan?
Yes, of course. I didn’t have sex with this one girl, but the way she approached me was kind of funny. We had just walked into this stadium, and she comes up. She didn’t say, “Hey,” or “Hi,” or “My name is so-and-so.” She just said, “Can I have sex with you tonight?” (more…)